well, certainly in the case of you and gita.

i'm just makin' good time hittin' two birds with one stone.

that and couples are easy to crush on because they're not available.

it's an ironic situation, but i'm carful as i've learned the hard way that publicly crushing serious candidates can be dangerous.

i can flirt 'till the cows come home when it doesn't matter, which is most of the time, but i have no game when it comes to those rare gems that really turn my heart inside out. totally retarded. i just want to say too much, and usually say too little because... a) i'm not brave enuf and/or b) the amount of self love i have is a hair short of my ridiculously high aspirations.

i'm working on it.
i just care too much.
i'm almost jaded enuf.

meanwhile i vent by splattering flattering remarks about the people in my life. sometimes two at once.

i remember them.